After this he asked where our "relationship" was going. (He choked me once in his friend's house- described himself as a "sexual sadist" and automatically assumed I was into that sort of thing.). I told him I was gay, which I am, and that I have a girlfriend; which I do. He then asked if he could still tell people we were together and I said no. He whined about it for a bit and then unfriended me, claiming he needed some 'time to think about this' beforehand. I said "lol" and haven't really heard from him since.